There’s a secret to making everybody happy and having a wonderful wedding: listen to no one but yourself and design an event that fits your personality and lifestyle. Yes, you’re allowed a short non-white wedding dress, a beach or mountain lodge wedding, rock music all over the place, no blue, old, or new, no priest or church, sandwiches in the menu, and unconventional wedding rings. Follow your heart and instinct and don’t worry; everything will be perfect!